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Best Sexual Positions – for Delaying the Man’s Ejaculation

Best Sexual Positions – for Delaying the Man’s Ejaculation

In this series of articles on best sexual positions, we cover the whole range of situations and conditions concerning the intercourse. This articles deals with the best sexual position to delay the man’s crisis and ejaculation. It is a perfect position for the man who finishes too quickly for his and his partner’s desires.Delaying the EjaculationThere are many numerous reasons why a man finishes to quickly, and some are stress related, some psychological and some are also physiological. Where there is very much friction, continual thrusting, and a great deal of mutual movement, the man’s crisis and ejaculation can follow very quickly.To delay this, there are some sexual positions to avoid, as well as one that should be preferred and used quite oftenPositions to AvoidThe general missionary group and all its variants should be avoided. These are quite intimate positions and leave most of the work to the man. If the man has a problem in finishing too quickly, these positions will not aid him.Another group to avoid are the so-called “doggy” group. This is a modified read entry. Again, most of the work in done by the man, and should he have the least problem in arriving too quickly to his ejaculation, these positions must be avoid.Positions to UseThere are two groups, with one being better than the other, that can delay the man’s ejaculation and thus prolong the pleasure to both partners. The first group of positions is the “sitting” group, where the woman will straddle a seated man. A good position in this group is for the man to sit on the edge of the bed with his legs off the bed and his feet on the floor. The woman will wrap her arms around his neck and her legs around his waste…inserting his penis as the embrace becomes very close. This position has no thrusting, only the man or the man and woman rotating their hips in unison. The effect is very pleasurable to the woman, as her g-spot is being pressed and her clitoris being stimulated at the same moment. The man for his part, is not thrusting and is being pleasured by holding his partner, face to face, and is able to kiss her and take particular attention away from his penis. The ejaculation in this position is always delayed.The Best PositionWith the man comfortably on his back, the woman mounts his and sits astride on his legs. The man does not thrust, but the woman does, and she is in control. The man only has to lay back and relax and let her works. To make the position more intimate, the man can pull the woman down to his chest so the couple is in close embrace; their heads touching at the forehead, and even kissing possibly. The crisis and its delay are assured, and the woman is getting both g-spot and clitoris stimulation. The best part here is that the man has the pressure off of him to respond, and his ejaculation is necessarily delayed.Following this easy advise above, you can enhance your intimate moments, and gradually train yourself to delay the crisis longer each time.

Best Sexual Position for Deep Penetration & Ultimate Satisfaction

Best Sexual Position for Deep Penetration & Ultimate Satisfaction

In our series of best sexual positions we have presented various positions for a number of conditions and circumstances. This article gives the absolutely best sexual position for those couples who wish the deepest penetration possible.About Deep PenetrationThe truth is a woman’s anatomy (as is concerned with her uterus) is able to change shape depending on her position during the sexual act. Some women are very interested in having as deep a penetration as possible (all the way to the cervix), and even if a man has a sufficiently long penis, the position assumed may not allow a deep enough penetration. The Crab on Its BackThis position is the absolute best for deep penetration. It is a man-on-top position, and it allows a great deal of facial contact of the partners. It also gives the man the ability to thrust in robust manner, and the woman to return the thrusting with her own alternating movement. The position is called the Crab on Its Back, and comes to us from both the Kama Sutra and the Arab classic, The Perfumed Garden.How to Assume the Crab on Its Back PositionThe woman will lie on her back on the bed, with her upper body only, and her buttocks placed near the edge of the bed, at the bottom corner. Her legs are held open by the natural angle of the bed’s edge, and her legs hanging over the bed with her feet on the floor. The man stands or bends over her, and easily penetrates her. At this time, the woman bends her knees backwards towards her breast, and resembles a crab on its back. The man is supporting himself with his hands, but his torso and the woman’s are generally in very close contact. The woman’s torso is pinned down, but she is free to move pelvicly, and should do so as the man starts thrusting. The man himself can have both or one leg on the floor to support himself, whatever is comfortable. The woman can pull her legs back further to allow the deepest penetration, and the man should be careful in his thrusting not to cause pain. The woman can rest one or both of her calves on the man’s shoulders. The couple should move in a coordinated movement of thrust and repel for as long as possible. This will almost assure a synchronized orgasm if done correctly. This position allows for maximum penetration and can be used by couples where the man may have only an average sized penis. In this way, as the woman raises her hips off the bed, the man’s penis is fully penetrated, and to a maximum extent, the actual size of the man’s penis is not too important, as penetration is at a very deep levelMaximizing the OrgasmIn this position the orgasm will come to the woman with deep and intense spasm and contractions. It is highly recommended that the man not withdrawn during his orgasm, but continue to thrust while the woman (or they both) come to deeply satisfying conclusion.The Crab on Its Back is absolutely the best sexual position for the deepest penetration possible.

Best Sexual Positions for Sex Out of the Bedroom

Best Sexual Positions for Sex Out of the Bedroom

In the Best Sexual Positions series we cover the ideal sexual positions for all circumstances and situations. In this article we discuss the best sexual position for sex out of the bedroom. Use this information to spice up your sex life, and remember that variety is the secret weapon against complacency.Sex Out of the Bedroom Situations – At HomeThere are some great areas for sex out of the bedroom, and one should be prepared to exploit those areas with the best positions under each circumstance.The areas of greatest advantage are the living room, where the sofa and easy chairs are; the bathroom and the kitchen.The living room Gives the bed replacements in the sofa and easy chairs. The best sexual position in these cases are supported doggy style, with the woman on her knees on the sofa seat, and her hands supporting her holding on to the sofa back. The man is standing, and easily finds a rear entry. This is a marvelous position in that it is pure sex for both partners, and the woman is getting full g-spot stimulation.The second best position in this case is the man seated on the sofa, and the woman mounts him, facing him, or even with her back turned. Penetration is easy and deep, and trusting is up to the woman. This is a maximum clitoral stimulation position, and usually ends up with the woman achieving a profound orgasm.The bathroom Presents some great possibilities, but the best is the standing rear entry. The woman will support herself against the bathroom sink, and spread her legs wide. The man will easily find rear entry and in this case, all the thrusting is up to him. This position is a standing doggy style, and thus gives both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This is really a pure sex position.Sex in the kitchen Is never as easy as it might seem. The best sexual position here is to have the woman sit or lie back on the kitchen counter (if low enough), or kitchen table. A small pillow should be placed under her buttocks. The man will raise the woman’s legs to her breast, and expose her genital area. Penetration is very easy, and it should be remembered the g-spot is no more than 4 to 5 inches from the entrance to her vagina. Therefore instead of thrusting only, the man should try to use his penis to find and g-spot and rub it up against the area. The woman can assist him by giving feed back. Then the man can begin thrusting in various ways, such as alternating short and long thrusts. The woman is very much stimulated by this position (which the Chinese refer to as the standing horse), and the man usually can last a great amount of time also without ejaculating.There are other great positions for sex outside the bedroom and outside the house, and these are covered in later articles in this series.

Long-lasting Sex: Best Sexual Position to Delay Early Emission

Long-lasting Sex: Best Sexual Position to Delay Early Emission

Coming too quickly during sex or premature ejaculation is one of the most common of all sexual concerns. “I want my hubby last longer. How to help him with it?” or “I want to last longer in bed?? Is this possible?” Questions flow wild.Earlier definition of premature ejaculation included a specific time limit (3 minutes), but today premature ejaculation it is ejaculation that occurs when a man doesn’t last as long as he or his partner would like. The good news is that coming too quickly is not a disease or illness. However, the bad news is that early ejaculation does exist and washes away a man’s self confidence.Don’t be confused. Don’t be ashamed and do not put up with the situation. Learn how to control your body and give a try to some “slow it down” positions and techniques. Ahh, and please, practice and patience are required. And the truth is that this post is not only for those men who feel they cum too early. It may be very informative for every man out there, since the sexual positions I want to discuss today do work for every man who wants to become a better lover and improve his overall health. Besides, these positions offer enjoyable bonuses for women.What about becoming better in bed? I know you want it. And we women want it from you too. Moreover, this is possible and easy.Sexual positions delaying that “point of no return”Woman on top sex positionTo control your ejaculation you need to know this: ejaculation is provoked by the speed and force of your thrusting, so the main idea is to decrease the speed and force of your sexual thrusts. When a woman is on top, there is minimal sexual stimulation of your penis. You don’t thrust, but your woman does and she should do it SLOWLY. Besides, in this position the woman is getting g-spot stimulation. And if you pull her down on your chest she will get an amazing clit stimulation. This sex position is perfect for both lovers and leaves plenty of time to enjoy each other before orgasm. Isn’t this cool to be in total control?SittingThe positions involving sitting are great too. A good one for a man is sitting on the edge of the bed with his feet on the floor. In such a way, you will have her wrapping your neck and her legs around your waist. The result is face-to-face intimacy, simultaneous pleasure and long-lasting sex, because in this sex position you also avoid the intense penis stimulation.Sexual positions bringing that “point of no return”The sexual positions where all the “work” is done by a man should be avoided. These are all the variations of missionary and “doggy style” positions. However, if you and your woman really adore these, no problem, get some tips on how to perform: thrust DEEPLY and SLOWLY. When you get deeper in her your penis enters a wider area of her pussy and the stimulation of your sensitive penis head is not enough to ejaculate. By the way, did I say that women go nuts when they are done deeply and slowly?And one more tip is rotation, pressing your pubic zone against her, and slight wiggling every time when you feel the urgency to ejaculate. The level of your excitement will be decreased after some seconds with this technique, and it will be enough to restart thrusting. Her bonus is clit stimulation and loads of satisfaction.Controlling ejaculation is not all about the position. A combination of sexual positions with oral sex and other methods is a good idea.In addition to sexual positions, there are more good tips and simple techniques. For example, as you know, using a condom really decreases the penis stimulation. Cock ring sex toys work wonders and help to prolong sex by comfortable tightening the shaft and adding at least ten happy minutes to your performance. Besides, most of cock rings are designed to stimulate a woman. Breathing is another method of arousal control; to calm arousal, take a few deep and slow breaths and keep going between the sheets. One more thing is performing Kegel exercises, because the pelvic muscles form the base for the male reproductive system. If PC muscles are strong, they help to achieve complete control over ejaculation. However, imagine how pleased your woman will be, enjoying multiple orgasms with you! Imagine how proud you’ll be, being able to satisfy your woman every time you have sex. For a woman it is really important when a man is able to maximize his sexual performance.

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RESEARCH AND PRACTICE Women Who Report Having Sex With Women: British National Probability Data on Prevalence, Sexual Behaviors, and Health Outcomes
Catherine H. Mercer, PhD, Julia V. Bailey, MD, Anne M. Johnson, MD, Bob Erens, MA, Kaye Wellings, MSc, Kevin A. Fenton, PhD and Andrew J. Copas, PhD
Catherine H. Mercer and Andrew J. Copas are with the Centre for Sexual Health and HIV Research at University College London, London, England. At the time of the study, Julia V. Bailey was with Kings College London, London. Anne M. Johnson is with the Department of Primary Care and Population Sciences at University College London, London. Bob Erens is with the National Centre for Social Research, London. Kaye Wellings is with the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine, London. Kevin A. Fenton is with the Division of STD Prevention, National Centers for HIV, STD, and TB Prevention, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Atlanta, Ga.
Correspondence: Requests for reprints should be sent to Catherine Mercer, Centre for Sexual Health and HIV Research, University College London, Mortimer Market Centre, off Capper Street, London, WC1E 6JB, England (e-mail: cmercer@gum.ucl.ac.uk
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Objectives. We estimated the prevalence of same-sex experience among women and compared women reporting sex with women and men and women reporting sex exclusively with women with women reporting sex exclusively with men, in terms of sociodemographics and sexual, reproductive, and general health risk behaviors and outcomes.
Methods. We used a British probability survey (n=6399 women, aged 16 to 44 years) conducted from 1999 to 2001 with face-to-face interviewing and computer-assisted self-interviewing.
Results. We found that 4.9% of the women reported same-sex partner(s) ever; 2.8% reported sex with women in the past 5 years (n=178); 85.0% of these women also reported male partner(s) in this time. Compared with women who reported sex exclusively with men, women who reported sex with women and men reported significantly greater male partner numbers, unsafe sex, smoking, alcohol consumption, and intravenous drug use and had an increased likelihood of induced abortion and sexually transmitted infection diagnoses (age-adjusted odds ratios=3.07 and 4.41, respectively).
Conclusions. For women, a history of sex with women may be a marker for increased risk of adverse sexual, reproductive, and general health outcomes compared with women who reported sex exclusively with men. A nonjudgmental review of female patients’ sexual history should help practitioners discuss risks that women may face
Why Don't Women Have Sex Scandals?

House Speaker Dennis Hastert (R.-Ill.), who has been accused of mishandling the Mark Foley case, should have known the perils of unconstrained libidos on Capitol Hill. He got his job only after predecessor Bob Livingston (R.-La.) was revealed to have cheated on his wife.
And one thing any speaker should know is that the next sex scandal is a matter of when, not if. 1 could fill up the rest of this column with the exploits of congressmen who had trouble keeping their pants on.
But not congresswomen. I tried to find examples of female politicians ensnared in such sordid doings, and came up with only one-in Taiwan. Over the last 30 years, the number of women in Congress has quadrupled, and they now make up one of every six members. Though they do their share of the legislative work, they fall terribly short when it comes to bedroom escapades.
The closest recent thing I could come to a woman politician involved in a sex scandal is Jeanine Pirro, whose campaign for New York attorney general is in trouble because she reportedly had her husband's phone bugged. What's the sex angle? She suspected he was having an affair.
Male Monopoly
It used to be assumed that once women gained a measure of parity in elective office, they would fall prey to the same temptations as men-bribery, dirty campaign tactics, delusions of grandeur and jumping into bed with hot subordinates. While they may compete on the first three, they have failed to break the male monopoly on illicit liaisons.
Why is that? For an answer, 1 called Louann Brizendine, a neuropsychiatrist at the University of California, San Francisco and author of the new book The Female Brain, which addresses the biological differences between the minds of men and women. She sounds completely unsurprised that male politicians are far more prone to tripping over their zippers.
"On average, males end up with twice as many cells in the area of the brain for sexual pursuit," she says. Females, her research indicates, devote less of their brain space to getting into other people's pants, and spend far less time fantasizing about sex. It's no accident that guys account for the vast majority of pornography consumers and strip-joint patrons.
Females also have plenty of interest in sex, but because of different brain structure and different hormones, they generally use different strategies to get it-inviting attention by enhancing their appearance, for example, instead of relentlessly hitting on potential partners. Says Brizendine, "It's the pursuit that gets males in trouble."
That's easy to see. Males find the same hormones that make them frisky can also lead them into sleazy or criminal behavior. Married men, Brizendine says, are nearly twice as likely to have affairs as married women, and males account for some 90% of pedophiles in prison.
Guys also seem more inclined to use positions of authority to gain sexual favors, which can be a fatal temptation for some congressmen. It's true that we occasionally hear lurid tales of female schoolteachers seducing underage boys. "Those become major stories because they're so rare," says Brizendine.
The obvious conclusion is that any organization that is predominantly male is doomed to be embarrassed periodically by some lunkheaded horndog. But no law says Congress has to be predominantly male. Nowadays, Brizendine points out, women make up a majority of college graduates and outnumber men in law schools and most other graduate programs.
She sees nothing in the female psyche that would steer them away from elective office. Instead of the current male domination of Congress, she says, "I wouldn't be surprised to see 50-50 or even 60-40 female-to-male someday."
The comic strip "Sylvia" once gave a synopsis of a world without men: "No crime and lots of happy, fat women." But anyone who relishes a good congressional sex scandal would be very bored.
Mr. Chapman is a columnist and editorial writer for the Chicago Tribune.
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